When I was given the invitation to give a talk on this glorious women day of our church I began to think on what to say and the Holy Spirit came to my rescue by giving a clue on what a glorious woman means and needs to experience a fullness in him .
The glory of a woman cannot experience God’s fullness outside of a successful marriage and family .
He gave the topic as :
MOUNTING UP YOUR MARRIAGE AND FAMILY ON EAGLE’S WINGS
Why eagle you may ask ?
God is an Eagle, Exo. 19:5, Deut 32:8-14 also the eagle has the best family structure among other creatures.
- The female eagle build their homes with the male eagle
- The eagle do not permit divorce
- The eagle do not believe in polygamy/ infidelity
- The eagle marriage last longest
- The eagle lives longest 40yrs to 70years
- The eagle raise and train children with decency
- The eagle demonstrate leadership excellence in totality .
Every daughter of Zion is meant to be an eagle.
Eagles are created for the skies while turtles are meant for the ground. But where an eagle, who flies 10,000 ft above the earth level begins to befriend a turtle that hustles and struggles on the ground, then such eagle is bound to end up a turtle. This is what affects many marriages today .
Please ask your Neighbour :
Who are your friends?
Are they eagles or turtles?
The people you identify with, always determine what identifies with you in life, marriage and family
The reason God often use the eagle bird to describe Himself is because only the eagle STRIVES to live a perfect life. [ps 1;1-3] may this lectures turn around your marriage and family. ijn
1 DEFINITION OF WOMAN
There are two types of women in the world, and I believe from these definition you, yourself should know where you fall into
[A] Wonder [B] War
[A ] Categories are the wonderful [B] Categories are the terrorists
Houses wives Houses knives
Ask your Neighbour ----- Are you house wife or house knife?
- WELCOME TO THE EAGLE’S SCHOOL OF FAMILY DEVELOPMENT
THE REBIRTH OF THE EAGLE
3 Areas of eagle’s recreation;
- The beak --- Mental Resourcefulness Recreation
- The talons ---- Marital skills Recreation
- The feathers ---- Woman’s body Repackaging
MENTAL RESOURCEFULNESS RECREATION
The greatest usefulness of a woman is her sound mental contribution to her marriage and family progress and productivity. That is how to be a wonder. The bible says – A wise woman builds her house but the foolish tears it down. Wisdom comes from dispositions and not position .My definition for wisdom is walking in supernatural dominion over mankind” It takes wisdom for a woman to build herself, her marriage and her family successfully.
- Without the wisdom of God in [mummy G.O] Folu Adeboye, in support of daddy [G.O], her office as the mother in Isreal of the RCCG today, the church wont have been experiencing all exploits the we are witnessing currently.
- There was a city in Israel called ABEL, the women were known for wisdom hence they called them MOTHERS- IN ISREAL. (2samuel 20:14-22)
- You are the mother in Isreal of your home and family – so your motherhood capacity development is a necessity.
- Its better to think much than talk too much.
- If your husband failed , you have failed .
- But if he succeeds, people will praise you.
- It takes wisdom to manage the home.
- It takes wisdom to manage in- laws.
- It takes wisdom to manage family and friends
- It takes wisdom to enjoy marriage .
- It takes wisdom to support your husband.
- A woman of wisdom offers quality and useful advice to the husband from time to time.
- They suggests and support their husbands with creative ideas
- Every right thinking husband needs a think- tank wife, and not a busy body.
- How can you advice your husband to go and borrow money so that you can buy expensive clothes, jewelries and eat chicken so that people should think you have arrived, who are you impressing?
When the man can’t pay back, stress can kill or he will run away from home because of shame and abandon you and the children, you are not a Wife but house knife
N.B. you don’t need expensive clothes and jewelries to succeed, what you need is expensive IDEAS, expensive business or expensive ministry.
WISDOM DEVELOPMENT STRATEGIES
PRAYER – Ask God for wisdom always
MEDITATION – Meditate on God’s word /books
OBSERVATION – Study your husband and children as you notice where they needed help render it .
IMPARTATION – Prophecy good things on your husband and children daily before going out.
 MARITAL SKILLS RECREATION
(Proverbs 31) VIRTUOUS WOMAN
Full house wife terminology is now a phase out phrase in marriages the 21st Century.
No man is sincerely interested in coping with a wife that is a liability any longer (lazy in ability)
Man was created to take care of the garden but woman was made to HELP MEET the man’s needs.
Marriage rings are no substitute for marriage Needs so don’t think once you have the ring then you have free from the needs! Not until the woman develops some creative skills, maritally, she can’t help the man and her immediate family needs. This is not suggesting that the man should be lazy.
7 SKILLS NECESSITIES
- DOMESTIC SKILL
Some women are very neat in church but dirty at home. Some can’t wash their own clothes and the children. Some house wives curtain smells like a dead rat – some are looking for house maids, so many housemaids are now sex maids because of their madam’s laziness.
- COOKING SKILLS
It doesn’t matter your education as a woman, if you don’t know how to cook, I bet you, you don’t have a home yet! The three ways you can pleases your husband – sex, peace the third thing is for the whole family = food. If you don’t know how to cook, very soon husband and children will be eating outside.
N.B. If a man eats outside for too long, very soon if the woman doesn’t put love charm, even the good food itself is a love charm!
Ask your Neighbour – Abi na only Indomie you sabi cook?
- TRADING SKILL
It is good to have painted fingers but painted fingers without working fingers are merely poverty decorated fingers! In Nigeria of today, the man’s income is not enough to pay all the bills , don’t be shy, go and learn a trade.
COME TO BBS AT LUSADA
We will teach you bead making, just go and learn something that will earn you money, even if is it 10% you are contributing its part of it
- EDUCATIONAL SKILL
There are adult education everywhere now, develop yourself by reading and listening to leadership tapes, Go for seminars pay and attend – you need knowledge!
- SOCIAL SKILL
These days everybody is waking up! If you are not social you can’t be special. Learn to be tolerant and jovial , stop wearing long face – piousity is not spirituality. Social people are more attractive, kind, they usually enjoy favour , don’t be a LOCAL HOUSE WIFE so that you won’t lose your husband to a social lady because some men are not matured enough.
- COMMUNICATION SKILL
The truth is, so many women don’t know how to talk, I have seen women in public transports several times insulting conductors and passengers, and I concluded that such women really have bad communication skills and lack home training. It is not until you have insulted someone before making a point! Choose a good time to talk to your husband and ensure he is in a good mood before raising any matter. Talk to him with respect. Remember he is the head, your crown, the father of your children, your hero, put him in the shoe of your father.
If you know how to think, you will know how to talk! Think before you talk
- SEXUAL SKILL
There is nothing called holiness in sex! Don’t push your husband outside, give your husband how he want it and when he wants it. Stop making him to promise heaven and earth before flying to Jerusalem by the time he comes back he will forget.
Bible say don’t deprive each other of it. How can a woman be demanding for money before allowing the husband to go to Jerusalem only a prostitute practice such!
The breasts of a woman is just temporarily meant for breast feeding children but is eternally meant to feed your husband – you can see this truth in the songs of Solomon 4/5 you know Solomon was an expert!
A man reported his wife to me, he was going to divorce his wife for real after four children? What happened?
He said the wife doesn’t want him to kiss her which means another man has been kissing her outside.
Like play, like play , he began to remember how he brought up the wife from the village to city!
I quickly called the wife and begged her and told her, please don’t break your home because of KISSING!
- Sexual deliverance –
- Its one of the secret of the lions longevity
- It reliefs a man from over mounted tension
- Its helps couple to destroy opposition
THE FEATHERS – WOMAN’S BODY REPACKAGING
There is `an old adage that says – No old woman in Ghana!
I Went for check up in a general hospital in Badagry in 2015, while I was waiting for my turn to be attended to, I saw a lady attendant tapping another woman’s breast - jokingly
They began to say
You are Redeem, you are mountain of fire
MFM = Busty woman
REDEEM = Hippy woman
TREM = Slim woman
Whichever one you are go and repackage yourself, you must not look old beside your husband – dress very neat , apply perfume stop wearing slippers to an outing ,appear as a queen everytime.
- Go and work on your weight
- Don’t look as if you are your husband’s mother
- Take up some exercises
- Dress smart and young
- Appear sexy and appealing to your husband at home so he can miss you always
- Please don’t expose your body but display your beauty
- Look charming and take away
- Just repack yourself like the first day your husband met you
MOTHER EAGLE AND KIDS
Research has proved that among all bird species, the best up bringing of the young ones comes from the Eagle. The mother eagle .
If you go back and check the anchor scripture for the lecture in Deut 32:11/12
It talks about the mother eagle and kids.
- Flight Training
- Food Sourcing
- Nest Building
- Cleft survival experience
N.B:Eagles, potentially lives up to 70 years of age , but commence the training of the young ones at less than 6month. It is the duty of mother to train children.
- The vision of Moses given Jochabed
- The vision of Samson was given to the mother
- The vision of Jacob was given to Rebekah
- The vision of John the Baptist was Sustained by Elizabeth because Zechariah couldn’t handle it
- The vision of Jesus was handed over to Mary
DO YOU KNOW THE VISIONS OF YOUR CHILDERN?
Finally, all these women became great women because the assignment of their marriages/families was handled with spirituality and wisdom
PRAYER/ ALTER CALL [LUKE 2:1-11].